Husbands don't always get a lot of credit for caring about their marriage because we are not always very comfortable talking about our marriage.
The idea that there are some aspects of our marriage that we need to talk about often scares us husbands. We assume that if a couple needs to talk about their marriage, there must be a problem.

Women are different. For them, there is no problem until we stop talking about our marriage.
Communication between a couple can break down for lots of reasons. In many cases, it's just because we get busy (or lazy).
Over the years, couples are tempted to take each other for granted. We stop working on our relationship. And we stop talking about our marriage.
"First Tuesday" is one way you can make sure that doesn't happen. Or if it has, "First Tuesday" may help you and your wife start talking again.

"First Tuesday" gives you and your wife an opportunity to spend some time each month talking about important things -- like yourselves, and your marriage. It happens in a supportive, non-threatening atmosphere. And the best part is, the most important things often get said privately between couples later -- on their way home, or the next day even.

--Dave Cushing